Friday, November 21, 2008

Take a Bow

I did blog once on the issue of a man who cheated and was caught by the wife when she saw his phone messages to his mistress. I did make a remark that he was not stupid because he cheated but he was stupid because he was caught.

It seems that my idea is not that original as there was the Rihanna song, Take A Bow, in which she said :

"And don't tell me you're sorry cause you're not,
Baby when I know you're only sorry you got caught"

Maybe its the anthem of cheating men or discrimination by women of men or profiling of men by women that we, men, are all labelled as cold-hearted especially if we cheat. There is also a saying "Women need a reason to cheat but men just cheat because they can".

Is it the man to be blame when men cheat? How about women? They cheat too. Is it ok if they do it due to not enough attention given by their partner or do they just do it for the sake of cheating. I do believe in this regard in this day and age, the playing field is level and men or women play the cheating game with the same reason. The difference may be the tools that are use to snag the 'prize'?


  1. Both parties are to be blamed! Bertepuk sebelah tgn tak bunyi kan?

  2. "And don't tell me you're sorry cause you're not,
    Baby when I know you're only sorry you got caught"
    - I feel that it's not only meant for the men who cheat, it applies to the women who cheat, too. All who cheat will only be sorry when they are caught. As long as they can 'simpan' what they 'makan' without being detected, I doubt if they'll ever be sorry...